Change
Change
Everydaywefacechange,nomatteryoulikeitornot,itwillhappen.Ifyouarereadyforit,youcancontrolthechange;ifyouarenotreadyforit,youarewaitingtobechanged.Butwhyit’ssodifficultforustochangeourselves,youmaywonder,everytimewhenwetrytochange,thereseemstobeamystiouspowerwhichbringsustonormal.Actually,therearefourevilsinourlifewhichpreventustochangeourselves,ifyoucanrecognisethemandovercomethem,thenyoucanchangeyouselfsuccessfully.Thefirstevil:thefearofdreamingYoumusthaveseenthisevil,everytimewhenyoubegintodream,thereisasoundaroundyou,“Don’tdaydreaming,it’simpossible!”Thissoundmaycomefromyoufriends,youfamilymembers,orevenitpretendstobethe“socialreality”.Whenwearealittlechild,weneverafraidofdreaming,whenwegrowsup,thisevilalsogrowsandevenstrongerthanourdream,finnaly,youfindyouselfaretrooubledbythisevil.But,pleaseremember,mydearfriends,everygreatstorycomesfromagreatdream.TheWrightBrothersinventedthefirstairplaneandfliedintothesky,thefirstgenerationofelitewhosetuptheInternet,Armstrong,thefisrtpersonwhosethisfootonthemoom.Allthisgreateventswerehappened30yearsagoandwerethoughtimpossibleatthattime.Howerer,todaywhenyoutravelbytheplane,whenyousendmessagesorwhenyousurftheInternet,don’tforgettotellyouself,allthesethingsarevictoryoverthefearofdreaming.Thesecondevil:thefearoffailureDifferentfromthefirstevil,thisevilliesinyourownheart,whenyoutrytostartyournewlife,theevilwillsaytoyou,“Nojoking,it’sshameful,youmayfail.”Althoughyouhavealotofwonderfulideasinyouhead,younevertakeaction,becauseyouareafraidoffailure.Dreamisperfec,butlifeisimperfect.Theonlywayyoucandefeatthisevilistotakeactionatonce,movetowardsyourdream,closerandcloser..
Thethirdevil,thefearofchangeThiseviltrytoaffectyouwiththehelpofyourfriends,yourfamilymembersorpeoplewhoareclosetoyou.What’sworse,theytrytopersuadeyou,“It’sgoodforyou!”Althoughtyouhavealreadymadesomeachievments,yourchangemakepeoplearoundyouworried.Why?Becausetheydon’twantyoutotakerisks,theypreferyoutokeepthecurrentconditionandliveastablelife.ButIwantyousay,don’tletothersdesighyourlife,followyourheart,pursueyourdream,dowantyouwanttodo.Youcantellyourself,eventhecivilwarputforwardbyAbrahamLincolnwasobjectedby40millionpeople,eventhetheoryofrelativityputforwardbyAlbertEinsteinwassuspectedwhenitwasfirstreleased.Willyouafraidofchange?Thefourthevil:thefearofhappniessIfyouhavecometothisstage,I’dliketosay,congratulations!Youhavemademanychangesotherscannotmake.Butbecarefulofthefouthevil,thefearofhappiness.Apairofloverwhobreakthroughalltheobstructionandbetogather,however,theyfallintotheirinnerfear,theyareafraidoflosingthepresenthappiness.Ifyouhavethisunfornuatemindandbegintocollecttheunhappythings,happniessmaybeawayfromyouatlast.Actually,thefearofhappinessresultedfromthelackofqualificatoninyourheart,wealwaysthinkthat,wedon’thavethequalificationtoenjoythehappiness.Ifyoulookaround,youmayfindyouarealwaysliveinhappiness.Whatwelacksofisnothappinessitself,but